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ravenfire
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 50
Straight Male, 50
0 km · Dublin
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Long:wave:Quote by user=dowhatever
have to admit suffer from premeet nerves,met two off here and stomach was in bits fore i met but felt i had to go through as i said i`d be there,prob just need more practice
Think this is a common problem for swingers, but given time we might learn you dont have to shag eveyone you meet, it`s not a requirement but fun if thats what your into.
I have had many affairs but never tried to steal that person from the person they are with. But to be honest when i met Teddy i wanted him from the start, but it took eight years for either of us to take the affair route, i didnt steal him from his ex, as their relationship was dead long before me and teddy didnt steal me, my marriage was over when the beatings happened nearly every day.
There is a saying " you cant steal someone if they dont want it" personaly i find that very true. I wanted to be taken, if i didnt i wouldnt be with teddy nealry four years later with two beautiful children.
To each their own, if you want to meet up to chat ect thats fine but if we go to the trouble of arranging a meet we tend to be quite clear that we want to meet for sex. We have made the mistake of going ahead without there been any attraction there but swinging we feel is a learning experiance and as you become more experiance with it, the more you really get to know what you want.
