
Quote by user=muldernTcell
Hi Guys, Not being in someone elses shoes I can only speak for mrs m and myself. Neither of us knew how the first meet would go, would we be jealous or would it be ok. I felt jealous for a split second when i heard my wife moan with pleasure but then i realised the woman i was with was also moaning so i would have been very stupid to be jealous. Since then we have had numerous meets, we find we both prefer seperate rooms and on occassion even swing on our own. We both have full knowledge and it has to be like that. I trust her implicitly and that trust is reciprocated by mrsm. I would never break it and neither would she. For example she had a visitor yeasterday while I was at work she called me as he arrived and after he left and all I asked was did you have fun. What I am trying to say is the realtionship needs to be very stable, swinging wont fix a bad relationship, it will only exacerbate the problem. This lifestyle does not suit everyone and people need to think long and hard before embarking on it.
If I felt jealous or if mrs m felt jealous then we would stop immeadiately, nothing is worth damging or destroying your marriage /relationship.