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Kool_as_ice
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 50
Ireland
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Hey Lovebird, I understand your sentiment. I don't really know the mods personally, though i did meet one fantastic Mod. They have a job to do and sometimes us "mere mortals" are unhappy with some of their actions or decisions,but thats how the site is policed and we are here by choice. One occasion, i made a funny (i thought)comment about a mod on a thread, and then a few mods circled the wagons on the thread to "set me straight", which shows that (1) they stand up for each other, which is a positive trait and (2)they dont like there fellow mods been made fun of my a "mere mortal". Luckily lots of the mere mortals also circled the wagons...
CheersEden, when you say "we" who are you referring to ? According to the site there are over 72000 members,of course there are a lot of inactive members,something which the admin needs to address,to give a more realistic figure of the size of the community ,but even if you discounted 50% that would leave over 36,000 members,so I would say it's quite a large community,,but really you would know who are in proper relationships and who are not?
slow day, reading down through old threads..And this one caught my eye, yes agree with everything been said, but did anyone raise the point that its possible that a couple who are married or in a long term relationship in the lifestyle dont use condoms, For example, i was with a married couple recently, that the male did not use condoms, but i did..do ye get my drift, so those in photos or cam , may be in this category? or maybe not, and they are committing suicide :O
Great advice there for everyone. I agree with the bit about chatting in the chat rooms to make friends etc, but personnally I dont have a whole pile of time to be in the chat rooms for say more than 20 I do send Pm's ( not rude ones, with face pic) as another method to make contact. Chat rooms are great if you have the time to be there a lot, but if you dont, you have to use the other facilities on the site. On a side note, I am trying to organise a party in cork, mainly for singles but open to couples. I didnt get a single response from any single ladies,and got 1 from one couple. So thats also disapointing,when you put the effort into trying to orgainsie a party and the response is virtually zero from the ladies..Any ideas why?? Is it just not happening in Cork ???
Dragon, I completely agree with your sentiment. I have, after sending a very tame mail, with bits about me, general chit chat, asking about them, then to receive a barrage of abuse in the reply " who do you think you are messeging me without been asked", "did i ask you to mail me", "ask me first in chat before i allow you to mail me", and thats just a small sample form different ladies. If these ladies took the time to read my comments, they would see I am a normal, easy going, guy looking for naughty fun on this site, just like eveyone else. Ladies, this is a swing site, single ladies been in the minority will receive the most mails, but if you have no interest, all it takes is a one liner to say "thanks for the mail but i'm not interested"..
Just a quick question. Why do ladies have in there profile discription that they meet single guys, then in there "my advert" section write "please single males dont contact me"...I find this very irrating and annoying , so please ladies update your profiles to reflect what you are actually looking for... Cheers
