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beth69
Over 90 days ago
Bi-curious Female, 43
Ireland
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This could do with some reading by a lot of peeps, while it's swing Party Etiquette, i think it should be taken on board for any meet of any sort swing related..
Well Done HNF on posting
Hi how are you? if you looking for a gent to met up in the afternoon i be free
waterford, Kilkenny, south Tipp guys or couples interested and available for tonight
me and sabrina want a meet for some fun
HotnFiery :thumbup: :thumbup: ...agree with Kitten...fab post ...and being a non-party goer...i would say that this goes clear across the board..whether a single meet or party!!
Thanks for reminding us :grin: & 
mgrin: Happy Holidays :xmgrin:
mgrin: Happy Holidays :xmgrin: Excellent Thread Hotnfiery!! :thrilled:
Well written, friendly and to the point advice. Although its been some time since I was in a party situation it's certainly advice I could have done with for the first party I attended.
Newbies and old hands take note ...
Think this needs to be put up again
Some people still don't get it !
1. BE COURTEOUS
Be aware that this is a lifestyle full of insecurities, uncertainties and fears. Courteously is how we all want to be treated - with kindness, thoughtfulness, understanding and sensitivity.
2. BE FRIENDLY
Whether or not you are personally interested in swinging with someone, be polite. You never know, you may share many other interests or you may meet that person again, and they may introduce you to someone with whom you ARE compatible and do wish to share time.
3. GO PREPARED
Take whatever you personally are going to need with you. Carry a small overnight bag for lingerie or robe, hairbrush, comb, toothbrush, cologne, condoms, sexy games, sexy videos, etc.
6. CLEANLINESS
Nothing turns a person off faster and more effectively than an unclean body or unfresh breath. Shower and perfume yourself before you leave home, it is always a good idea to freshen up again when you arrive at your destination.
7. RESPECT OTHERS' FEELINGS
Beware, not everyone is comfortable in all situations, Keep your eyes open for signs that your partner, as well as others, is relaxed and enjoying themselves. If someone is not comfortable, try helping them over the rough spots. Remember, you were a beginner once yourself. If it is obvious that things are not working out, remain polite and courteous; but alert the host. Keep in mind that not all people feel the same about things.
8. DON'T BE PUSHY
If you are interested in swinging with someone, let them know in an inviting way; if they are interested, they will respond positively. If they are not and say "No, thank you," do not ask WHY. Everyone has the right to say "NO" at all times, to anyone, without explanation. Do not ever forget that.
9. ONLY DO WHAT IS FUN FOR YOU
Do not allow yourself to become sexually involved with anybody that you are not interested in. There is no reason to involve yourself in a scene that you are not comfortable with. You are in the lifestyle to enjoy yourself, so only do what you want, when you want and with whom you want.
10. HOW AND WHY TO SAY NO
One of the basic etiquette's in swinging is the right of anyone to say "No". Experience has taught most people that everybody is not right for everybody else. Improper handling of a situation, however, can lead to a lot of hurt or very bad feelings. The swing world accepts the premise that everyone has the right to say "No" to anyone at anytime and it should be done with a simple "No, thank you". Never give an explanation, because that is what usually causes the problems and the pain.
11. ALCOHOL OR DRUGS
Most of us do not use drugs, although some of us drink socially. At times, a few drinks are nice to help you "relax". Over-indulging may hamper your physical abilities, as well as offend or turn other people off to you. If you have to over indulge in order to participate in swinging, you are involved in the wrong lifestyle.
12. PRACTICE SAFER SEX
It is up to us to protect ourselves as well as our partners. With the present concern over sexually transmitted diseases such as syphilis, gonorrhea, aids, yeast infection, etc., the use of condoms should not offend anybody. Anyone not willing to take this precaution is acting selfishly and irresponsibly. You are not being accused of being unclean, but simply someone wishes to provide you both with protection.
16. ENJOY YOURSELF
Most important, have a good time, act out your fantasies, explore your own sexuality and enjoy everything this lifestyle has to offer with enthusiasm, laughter and a positive attitude.
Some people still don't get it !
1. BE COURTEOUS
Be aware that this is a lifestyle full of insecurities, uncertainties and fears. Courteously is how we all want to be treated - with kindness, thoughtfulness, understanding and sensitivity.
2. BE FRIENDLY
Whether or not you are personally interested in swinging with someone, be polite. You never know, you may share many other interests or you may meet that person again, and they may introduce you to someone with whom you ARE compatible and do wish to share time.
3. GO PREPARED
Take whatever you personally are going to need with you. Carry a small overnight bag for lingerie or robe, hairbrush, comb, toothbrush, cologne, condoms, sexy games, sexy videos, etc.
6. CLEANLINESS
Nothing turns a person off faster and more effectively than an unclean body or unfresh breath. Shower and perfume yourself before you leave home, it is always a good idea to freshen up again when you arrive at your destination.
7. RESPECT OTHERS' FEELINGS
Beware, not everyone is comfortable in all situations, Keep your eyes open for signs that your partner, as well as others, is relaxed and enjoying themselves. If someone is not comfortable, try helping them over the rough spots. Remember, you were a beginner once yourself. If it is obvious that things are not working out, remain polite and courteous; but alert the host. Keep in mind that not all people feel the same about things.
8. DON'T BE PUSHY
If you are interested in swinging with someone, let them know in an inviting way; if they are interested, they will respond positively. If they are not and say "No, thank you," do not ask WHY. Everyone has the right to say "NO" at all times, to anyone, without explanation. Do not ever forget that.
9. ONLY DO WHAT IS FUN FOR YOU
Do not allow yourself to become sexually involved with anybody that you are not interested in. There is no reason to involve yourself in a scene that you are not comfortable with. You are in the lifestyle to enjoy yourself, so only do what you want, when you want and with whom you want.
10. HOW AND WHY TO SAY NO
One of the basic etiquette's in swinging is the right of anyone to say "No". Experience has taught most people that everybody is not right for everybody else. Improper handling of a situation, however, can lead to a lot of hurt or very bad feelings. The swing world accepts the premise that everyone has the right to say "No" to anyone at anytime and it should be done with a simple "No, thank you". Never give an explanation, because that is what usually causes the problems and the pain.
11. ALCOHOL OR DRUGS
Most of us do not use drugs, although some of us drink socially. At times, a few drinks are nice to help you "relax". Over-indulging may hamper your physical abilities, as well as offend or turn other people off to you. If you have to over indulge in order to participate in swinging, you are involved in the wrong lifestyle.
12. PRACTICE SAFER SEX
It is up to us to protect ourselves as well as our partners. With the present concern over sexually transmitted diseases such as syphilis, gonorrhea, aids, yeast infection, etc., the use of condoms should not offend anybody. Anyone not willing to take this precaution is acting selfishly and irresponsibly. You are not being accused of being unclean, but simply someone wishes to provide you both with protection.
16. ENJOY YOURSELF
Most important, have a good time, act out your fantasies, explore your own sexuality and enjoy everything this lifestyle has to offer with enthusiasm, laughter and a positive attitude.
Quote by slightlysexy
the type that annoys me the most is, somone whos a great chatter on site, funny and witty , then when u meet them , they cant string two words together in a conversation:dunno::dunno:
Maybe its just your two big eyes that scare the conversation out of them !! ... Either that or the bull whip you are holding in your hand at the time ..
Hi all lady's and couples
Pre Christmas fun in Waterford city centre apartment
Any time of the day from now till 1january.
Everything can happen if the chemistry is right.
Look forward to all you 
Pm me for details :) champagne reception included :)
Pm me for details :) champagne reception included :) hope ye got someone to join ye and ye had agood time see yere ad till now at pm
Heya guys how's it going, hope you are enjoying the festive spirit, I too am on holidays well actually home for a few weeks from Australia so I would defo be keen to catch up, I sent you a PM there if you would like to take a look, no pressure but fingers crossed I might tick a few boxes!? Cheers, Dingo
Damn, no comments on profile yet. Have plenty of naughty fun, Tiny. Merry Christmas 
.... Good looking, fit bodied, well hung and chatty [b:5e26936b16]guy[/b:5e26936b16], gal or couple that because of the above figured that[b:5e26936b16] was [/b:5e26936b16]enough...
....had a couple of them :eeek: being well-hung is [b:5e26936b16]NOT[/b:5e26936b16] enough 
After a number of years in this lifestyle, might be enlightening to find out some others viewpoints on what kind of outcomes/experiences they have come across?
The types that you may have encountered :-
1. Great looking guy/gal/cpl, looked great when first seen and totally enjoyed the experience?
2. Great looking guy/gal/cpl, looked great when first seen and turned out to be a total disaster?
3. Nice looking guy/gal/couple, didn't fancy initially, but as the night wore on, found out they were really lovely sexy peeps and a joy to play with?
4. Nice looking/guy/gal/couple, didn't fancy on initially, and when chat started, couldn't wait to make excuse and get away?
5. Good looking cpl, one floated the boat... other was better off left at home?
6. Good looking cpl, both too far up their own asses, they should have stayed at home with each other?
7. Nice looking gal/guy/cpl, class themselves as hotter than they actually are, trying to play above their expectations?
8. Nice looking gal/guy/cpl, underrate themselves and end up with people they may regret in the long run?
Am pretty sure those of us that have experience in this lifestyle have encountered one or more of the above and there are many other categories to add to the list but happy enough to see if this will end up in a friendly advise and discussion for not only newbies but experienced lifestylers also ;)
The types that you may have encountered :-
1. Great looking guy/gal/cpl, looked great when first seen and totally enjoyed the experience?
2. Great looking guy/gal/cpl, looked great when first seen and turned out to be a total disaster?
3. Nice looking guy/gal/couple, didn't fancy initially, but as the night wore on, found out they were really lovely sexy peeps and a joy to play with?
4. Nice looking/guy/gal/couple, didn't fancy on initially, and when chat started, couldn't wait to make excuse and get away?
5. Good looking cpl, one floated the boat... other was better off left at home?
6. Good looking cpl, both too far up their own asses, they should have stayed at home with each other?
7. Nice looking gal/guy/cpl, class themselves as hotter than they actually are, trying to play above their expectations?
8. Nice looking gal/guy/cpl, underrate themselves and end up with people they may regret in the long run?
Am pretty sure those of us that have experience in this lifestyle have encountered one or more of the above and there are many other categories to add to the list but happy enough to see if this will end up in a friendly advise and discussion for not only newbies but experienced lifestylers also ;)
