Ok we're not new, we are maybe a little nervous..... Need a bit of advice. Finding it really difficult to "sell" ourselves on here and can only assume that people must think we're boring because I am useless at writing a decent ad or forum post. We are genuine and wouldn't be time wasters. So I guess the main thing I (mrs writing this) want to know is when you are reading a post etc what catches your eye, gets your attention and makes you think about responding? Never thought that looking for a cheeky night of pleasure would be so hard to arrange lol
For all those reading this I am much better with my mouth and hands or in bed, or over a table sofa, against a wall etc than I am at writing posts!
My advice would be the same for you as any new person / couple.
Post in forums, try and get into the chat room from time to time so people can get a feel for you. Before long you will be chatting and interacting with people, then you will be ready for your first meet and greet where you can put faces to names.
Fill up your profile with your likes and what your looking for. A few pictures never go wrong either and they dont have to be xxx rated or face pics either, but something that gives people a flavour of what you are about.
If people can see your genuine then you will get on much better. We where all new once and people do understand that.
One step at a time and remember the longest journey starts with a single step.
Welcome to swing and i hope you find what your looking for.
Sean
My advice would be the same for you as any new person / couple. Post in forums, try and get into the chat room from time to time so people can get a feel for you. Before long you will be chatting and interacting with people, then you will be ready for your first meet and greet where you can put faces to names. Fill up your profile with your likes and what your looking for. A few pictures never go wrong either and they dont have to be xxx rated or face pics either, but something that gives people a flavour of what you are about. If people can see your genuine then you will get on much better. We where all new once and people do understand that. One step at a time and remember the longest journey starts with a single step. Welcome to swing and i hope you find what your looking for. Sean[/quote the creme egg work ok for u? LOL...
Hey vmcg
Welcome to swinging!!! lol Firstly getting started and arranging ur first meet is always nerve wracking but also exciting. Not to echo what sean said ( great advice sean!) but pics really are essential. I found though when we first joined, that chatting in the room really helped us. We got to know names etc and were able to match them up with faces at M&G's. The chat in the room can go very fast sometimes but stick with it, it gets easier. Also i would recommend going on cam in the room. You dont have to "put on a show", play or even show ur faces but a lot of times when chatters see the cpl ( fem esp) is genuine it can help with meets.
Anyway hope that was a little helpful and see ye in the chat rooms
Roxy
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Quote by roxyxxx Hey vmcg Welcome to swinging!!! lol Firstly getting started and arranging ur first meet is always nerve wracking but also exciting. Not to echo what sean said ( great advice sean!) but pics really are essential. I found though when we first joined, that chatting in the room really helped us. We got to know names etc and were able to match them up with faces at M&G's. The chat in the room can go very fast sometimes but stick with it, it gets easier. Also i would recommend going on cam in the room. You dont have to "put on a show", play or even show ur faces but a lot of times when chatters see the cpl ( fem esp) is genuine it can help with meets. Anyway hope that was a little helpful and see ye in the chat rooms Roxy xx
when we were starting michelle was in the chat rooms and this helped to make a few friends. Dont be afraid to meet someone for tea/coffee as this is a good steping stone into the secne too. this could be the other person checking if you and them click for funn at a later date.
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just read the op post date (august), reckon they must have got sorted by now