only going by experance you said you informed everyone about your last no show, as your gf was unwell well you did`nt inform me after making arrangments to meet. also your profile has you as a single male not a couple. these forums are for the swing4ireland community to inform each other of the happenings at meets or just let each other know whats going on here genuine couples on here would have let the people they made arrangements with know of a problem BEFORE a meeting i only go on my own experance with you others can take whatever the like from it. you may have shown up this week what happened last week when the same meet was setup ????????????????