Welcome to swing Kevin.
Join in on the forums and try and get into chat for a bit just so people can see what you are about. Fill up your profile and a few pics are always a good idea.
It can be a long journey, and you will need to make an effort to get known as there are alot of guys lookinf for the same thing, but with time and effort you ahve every chance of finding what your looking for.
Good luck on your journey and enjoy the trip.
Sean