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1st Mar 2011 - 11:50pm
jjust4fun's Avatarjjust4fun
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hi i have been on here for a good while now almost a year , and i still cant arrange that first meet, have been told im good looking and good in bed , and joined this site as a means of exploring some sexual fantasies, have had mmf experience before and ffm but am looking for a random meet if you get what i mean but it seems there are no couples or single females ouththere meeting, HELP ! cheers

 

13th Mar 2011 - 1:58pm
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well first off I'd have to ask if you're truly making an effort to get chatting to people on here?

do you go into the chatroom and involve yourself in the general chat and just get to know some of the people?
do you go to meet&greets?

i would think it very hard to find someone willing to do a random meet without even a minimum amount of chatting first?
for a lot of people it's all in the chase, and this bit turns them on....

i can't imagine if i was in a bar some guy coming up to me and saying "hello" and being like "i'm going to jump your bones"...maybe that's just me but i like a bit of mental stimulation to go with everything else!

if you want to explore sexual fantasies maybe try filling out your profile a little more, that might help?
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25th Mar 2011 - 12:19pm
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likestobite wrote:

well first off I'd have to ask if you're truly making an effort to get chatting to people on here?

do you go into the chatroom and involve yourself in the general chat and just get to know some of the people?
do you go to meet&greets?

i would think it very hard to find someone willing to do a random meet without even a minimum amount of chatting first?
for a lot of people it's all in the chase, and this bit turns them on....

i can't imagine if i was in a bar some guy coming up to me and saying "hello" and being like "i'm going to jump your bones"...maybe that's just me but i like a bit of mental stimulation to go with everything else!

if you want to explore sexual fantasies maybe try filling out your profile a little more, that might help?
xhcool.gif



We don't know how much effort he has put in. He may well have spent plenty of time in the chatrooms (when you're not there), may well have attended meet and greets and made plenty of effort in making contacts with people but to no avail.. The chatrooms aren't for everyone either, it can be hard to follow the chat and get involved at times.

 

17th Apr 2011 - 2:38am
dar4u's Avatardar4u
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We don't know how much effort he has put in. He may well have spent plenty of time in the chatrooms (when you're not there), may well have attended meet and greets and made plenty of effort in making contacts with people but to no avail.. The chatrooms aren't for everyone either, it can be hard to follow the chat and get involved at times.


I have been on here now 5 years and I will admit, it took some time to get an invite to my first meet and greet. I do find it difficult to engage in the chatrooms at times, and now that I have returned from a break, its even harder.

But I have learned, just be yourself, as honest as you can be, and then anything is possible.
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likestobite wrote:

well first off I'd have to ask if you're truly making an effort to get chatting to people on here?

do you go into the chatroom and involve yourself in the general chat and just get to know some of the people?
do you go to meet&greets?

i would think it very hard to find someone willing to do a random meet without even a minimum amount of chatting first?
for a lot of people it's all in the chase, and this bit turns them on....

i can't imagine if i was in a bar some guy coming up to me and saying "hello" and being like "i'm going to jump your bones"...maybe that's just me but i like a bit of mental stimulation to go with everything else!

if you want to explore sexual fantasies maybe try filling out your profile a little more, that might help?
xhcool.gif

 

19th May 2011 - 12:51am
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First off....lovely belly icon_wink.gif but maybe its cuz u live sooooo far from mayo giggle.gif xx

hi

18th Jun 2011 - 12:40pm
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just to say i have met lots on ere but me and g are looking for that first meet as a couple so just need get a meet out way so trying to find nice couple or bi female to meet up with