Amber many guys are loathe to put Bi on profiles due to the fact that there is still such a social stigma around Bi males, many straight males see them as a sexual threat ( as in will he touch me during play)and a lot of women also feel threatned by the fact that guys who are Bi are not seen as macho enough ( silly but sadly true)..
I have many Bi-Sexual male friends who still live sexual double lives, not because they want to but because they simply have to..

I can spot a Bi guy a mile away, it doesn't bother me, I would prefer they were honest, but accept they have their own reasons, but I don't like the guys who protest too much or critisise other men who are open..
When a guy is camming with you, and he has more anal toys than a display in a sex shop, you kinda know he is either Bi or Bi- Curious.lol.

I recentlty up dated my profile to bi, as I felt, I have to be honest with myself first and foremost and the same for others too.

I had been bi-curious for many years, and I guess I still am to a point in that I have had only one bi encounter.

In saying this, I had been advised by a member here to put up I was straight as it would scare too many people away. I will admit I did have it up a straight, but having received warm support from other members here, I decided, I have nothing to hide, I am who I am, and if you choose to meet me, then you know who I am.

Honesty at times can be difficult, but with so many people who lets others down, I do not want to fall into that category for not been honest.

Hiya Dar,
I don't think that member was correct in saying that, people can only give their own opinions but not that of others, it's only classed as hearsay then.

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In saying this, I had been advised by a member here to put up I was straight as it would scare too many people away. I will admit I did have it up a straight, but having received warm support from other members here, I decided, I have nothing to hide, I am who I am, and if you choose to meet me, then you know who I am.
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We have come across other male members who do the same thing as they believe it will scare people, mainly straight couples off. And in some cases it will but honesty is the best way to go when swinging, after all you don't want to get to a meet with a cpl and get caught up in the moment and start doing naughty things to the straight male:scared:.
If your straight, bi, gay or what ever be honest and above all be proud of it.

I've known myself to be Bi Selective for a long time now, but for a while I had straight on my profile as I got a few nasty emails back from couples when I tried being honest. In hindsight I realized that people that can't understand that bi doesn't mean you 'fuck anything with a pulse' aren't really for me.
Unfortunately a lot still think Bi Males are lesser men, are more promiscuous..to the point of being reckless in they're sexual behavior, or that they are aggressively bi as in they will try and have grope or more of the male half of a couple.

God how naive and up your own arse must you be to think this?
If anything I find its made me more selective, I know exactly what I like. I dont, and won't ever try and impose myself on anyone that does not wish to reciprocate.
As for the guys that arent comfy enough to come out I say no harm its your choice and I'd always respect that, but I do take exception with the ones that cry out and act homophobic when a guy does make an advance in chat or the subject of bisexuality is brought up, yet the same guys can be seen lurking in the bi rooms in the late hours.

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Titan this is a form of bullying and no one should have to put up with nasty emails, grrrr people like that really piss me off but it's their loss

I have bi-curious on my profile but I have dabbled in the right enviroment! And I enjoyed it, immensely.
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